When I woke up this morning, I was going to enjoy a chocolate chip scone and share the blessed recipe with all of you. However, waiting in my inbox were a few more “anonymous” comments that I obviously need to address. Fellow bloggers have long debated what to do with Ms. Anonymous. Typically if you receive such a comment, it will be a cowardly-mean-ignorant comment that attacks you and is only worthy of the delete button. Some of these people are clearly just internet trolls looking for a reaction. However, since I have received several anon and unanon comments on this topic, I am ignoring my delicious scones (for the time being) to address the ignorance.
If you follow me at all, you know I live in a city. You also know that my home and the house adjacent to mine were completely abandoned when purchased and have since been transformed like a Cinderella story. This is where the comments come in:
- Nice! But all of this work for a TWIN home???????? Why not do this work in a single beautiful home?????????
- Why wouldn’t you just fix up a home in the suburbs or country?????
- I can’t believe you have spent all of that time, money and resources to restore something that probably won’t appreciate.
- How nice that you have decorated your apartment and not waited until your someday home!
Seriously people??? I am embarrassed for you and for your mothers because I am sure they taught you better. I find these statements to smack of misguided-classism and suburbanism.
So…..why did we choose to live in the city rather than some other place? There are many reasons that I could list for you. But I’m not going to. The bottom line is that it was our decision. We are happy with our decision; we aren’t waiting for a someday home; we’re not pining away for the suburbs; we are proud of our home, community and neighborhood. And you would be wise to remember your manners when in someone’s blog home. You are always welcome here and if you were ever visiting my area you would be welcome in my home. I would even give you a chocolate chip scone! Your negative and condescending comments; however, are never welcome here. Mind your manners peeps.
Amber says
A home is a home no matter where your hat is hung! 🙂 I can’t believe the gall of some posters it makes me think that they have a sad life.
Jessica says
I started following you because you ARE in the city. I miss my my small downtown condo but we really left for all the right reasons. I would love to move my family back to the city, but I am also happy in my LITTLE suburban home. I must say, that we often just don't feel like we 'fit-in' in suburbia, but it may just be my own prejudices and misconceptions. 🙂 Try not to take the weirdos to heart.
Danielle says
I just stumbled upon your blog and read your post about negative comments. I can't believe people have the time or energy to leave mean, nasty comments. If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all. I love your home (and it's sister). It has character and everyone has their own likes and dislikes and one thing is not always for someone else. To each their own. Go on with your bad house flipping self!
Carolyn @ My Backyard Eden says
I just say use the delete button. People like that are simply not worth the time.
Keep doing what you're doing!
Mandi @ Finding Home says
Two thumbs up sister. You addressed that with such class. Right on!
marcab77 says
i love your home! you have added so many beautiful details within those walls to make it special and your very own. your home is also vintage — that gives it character. it is a survivor, along with it's twin sister, and has a wonderful story to tell. never allow anyone to make you feel less than you are. be proud Mrs. A to Z, be proud!!
Olivia says
"How rude!" I say, Stephanie Tanner style. I'm glad you spoke up. Internet meanies need to be put in their place! You have a lovely home, and that's one of the reasons why we are all followers!
{ L } says
Wow, these unsolicited opinions just blow me away. I have ONE thing on my heart that I want to share with you:
Since I've found your blog and seen your GORGEOUS HOME SWEET HOME I have been truly captivated by it's charm and entertained wishes of wanting to live in the city just like you because of all the personality and charm. Your city home has character and is simply beautiful…and I seriously can recall MANY times where I've thought in my mind how exciting it would be to live in a home like yours.
Thanks all I have to say about it! 😉
Stephanie says
Well said. Your home is just that…YOURS! Treasure what you have (as you clearly do) and pay those nay-sayers a nevermind!
Just Ducky @ Heart! says
SERIOUSLY?!! And Amen. Some people just shouldn't open their mouths–especially via the net. Well stated. And FYI…I love your bloggy home, and your actual home.
mustard seeds says
Aren't some people rude? Just delete them and forget about it.
Krista@thegatheringplacedesign says
People are wack! I don't even understand the point of saying some of those things. Whatev…They obviously didn't read about your renos. I love the history and story you home tells and you have done an amazing job with both yours and the 'twin'. Love you blog…and that brick wall. 😉 XOXO
Terri says
What a great name… trolls.
Here's something funny… Bob and I are thinking about selling our suburban home and moving to the city!!
I am sorry you are dealing with this insensitivity.
Hey, if I ever am insensitive, you should tell me ASAP and in no uncertain terms!!
Rhoda @ Southern Hospitality says
Ah yes, the anons. I've had my own troll(s) for over a year now. They stopped for awhile, but came back about 2 mos. ago. I have chosen to block their IP address & so far that is working pretty well. It goes into a spam folder & no one sees it but me. The time and thought that goes into making such mean & nasty comments just amazes me. And they keep saying the same mean & nasty things over & over, like I didn't get it the first time. It's really sad that there are folks out there like this, but I guess it goes with the territory. I've only said one thing on the blog about it & from what I hear from other bigger bloggers who get these troll comments, the best thing to do is ignore them. They must enjoy pushing buttons & knowing that they get to us. Sad, sad! Sorry you've had it too, but know you're not alone. I love your TWIN!
Melissa says
I am lucky that I haven't had mean people yet. I am upset that you would have to say something like this. You are so nice!
Empty Nest Full Life says
Just wondering what must be up with these people. They are not responsible for you. These decisions are between You your husband and God. God doesn't lead all of us to the suburbs. Now go enjoy that scone. Jackie
Jenn @ WestSacHoney says
Ugh they obviously didn't listen to their mothers! Nor would they ever take the time to take pride in their homes and show what hard work and dedication looks like when you put some elbow grease into it!
Nina Patricia @ The Adventures of Nina Patricia says
While I completely agree with all of the comments above, I have to regretfully say I'm not surprised of these mean comments one bit. The internet has made us believe we can hide behind a screen and be awful to one another. I've follow NieNie (like most of you) and she gets awful comments saying that she looks awful (she is a burn victim for those who don't know) and just mean spirited comments.
Obviously these trolls are jealous. Being a person who lost my home last year and was homeless for 3 months gave me a perspective and appreciation for any place where you can have your family and be surrounded by love.
I should be so lucky one day to have a home half as beautiful as yours.
Missy in Texas says
"Mean People Suck" 🙂
The Barnett Family says
OMGosh, I cannot believe that people actually said those things about your home where you raise your family. Your home has sooo much character and it is yours!!! The "twin"….does someone live there? When you remodeled it, you just helped someone the person living in it right? Everyone choses where they want to live….it is not up to other people! I love where we live…..my home town….the ONLY place I have EVER lived. If someone does not like, they can go where the sun doesn't shine. Sorry but the truth! KEEP smiling girl and decorating your lovely home!
Richella says
I think I'm the 71st person to comment on this post–you've obviously touched a nerve. I applaud the fact that you spoke up about this! Good for you!
Of course, considering how much you've done with that twin house of yours in the city, just think of all you could do with a REAL house in the SUBURBS! (Just kidding!)
boosted98mitsu says
I also live in a twin home in PA….in Southeast PA! I love my home it has so much history and character that I wouldn't give it up even if I won a 10 million dollar lottery. I think your home is absolutely beautiful! I just found your blog in the past week and look forward to finding inspiration from your home!
Wendy says
For the record, I really enjoy coming into your HOME!!! And me? I now live in the 'burbs, but miss the unique quaintness of my city home! Some people are just nuts 😉
Have a great day Beth!
Jen Vogt says
Extremely well said! No matter what our preferences, people choose their own lives and own way of living. You've done a beatiful job on your home, Beth – I'm always so impressed with it!
The Rose Room says
there are some seriously weird people out there! Rachaelxo
Erin says
Oh my gosh! I am stunned at the temerity of people. You handled it with grace and dignity. Bravo!
Jenni says
Oh no! I can't believe anyone would leave such mean spirited comments! 🙁 For the record, your home is absolutely GORGEOUS! I hope your day was a good one, despite all of those awful comments! Don't give them the time of day~ they aren't worth it!
Blessings,
Jenni
Lorie says
I am sorry that people are being boogers! It seems the mean commenters are out in full force lately. I hope you know there are 1,000,000 more people that love you!
Natasha says
This is so disturbing-I feel so sad that people would do this kind of thing and say these kinds of things. I also cannot believe that these people remain anonymous… that is just gutless and disgusting. What is going on with people these days? It's a very sad world we live in.
I think your work is wonderful and I applaud your creativity and pride in your family home. Bravo!
Best wishes,
Natasha.
Beachbrights says
Amen, Sista.
XOXO
this blessed nest says
wow!
i think i am #60 something? commenting on this post. i just want to say to those anonymous commenters – take this! and shove it.
how dare they.
it's not only manners as you have said so well, it the boring life they must live & total box theory that gives them no respect to culture & history.
reading this, just makes me want to diverisfy the raising of my children even more!
strange how this post makes me think of how i am raising my own kids, but it did. dear lord, please help me share with my kids the beauty of older homes, culture that comes from living in the city, & the wealth of being open minded. amen.
now…on with the recipe & a tutorial of how you did those "find me" buttons on the upper right, pretty please! 😉
xoxo
you know i've got your back! 😉
Melissa Miller says
Beth I'm trying to display your new button and cannot get it to work right. I'll try again soon.
Your new design looks great!
Taija says
The only thoughts I have ever had about your blog home and your lovely actual home is that you are awe inspiring and I appricate your talents and that you are so willing to share wonderful ideas…trolls…grrr.
Heidi says
I can not believe the nerve of people that would say those things to you or to anyone.
Glad you didn't keep it all in and addressed these types of people.
Many Blessings
Heidi
Jenny says
People say the strangest things online! It's like they think it's ok, since they are hiding behind a computer. I used to be a group leader for an ebay group and it was insane!
Last time I checked, we are free to chose our own home! I think your house is awesome and has a lot of character!
Katie says
It isn't often that my hubs sits with me and oohs and aahs over a blog but you have succeeded my dearest, you have succeeded. I love white furniture and trim, he likes stained. I love color, he loves neutrals. Many an attempt at decorating has gone cattywankas trying to marry the two and you have succeeded. I believe we will just copy your home to our little hearts content…when we move out of our rental into our own home someday. 🙂
Tricia says
Amen, sister!
Courtney @ Scraps and Scribbles says
I just don't understand why people feel the need to comment on things that are none of their business. What do they care where you live? Or what kind of home you have? That's a choice between you and your family. It makes no difference to anyone else, so why waste the time and effort to make snide, rude comments? Find something more productive to do with your time, people!
Beth, I love your blog and the fact that you share your home and your ideas with us all. And I'm glad that you look the Negative Nellys in the eyes and tell them to back off 🙂
The Little Red Shop says
I'm sorry that you have to deal with that junk. They are just attention grubbers…trying to smudge up other people's happiness. How many romantic comedies are set in beautiful urban neighborhoods? (You've Got Mail, Notting Hill, Ally McBeal…etc…) I have always wanted to restore a brownstone!
God bless you!!!
: )
Julie M.
Patti says
You go Girl!! We are all here to enjoy everyone's ideas, homes and creativity and some people just can't be happy – no matter where they are…go bake your scones and enjoy!
Kristen says
Who's to say that everyone has to live in a single standing home out in the suburbs? Your home (your haven) is wherever you choose it to be. For those who don't recognize that, I hope they are enlightened soon and maybe they will learn a few manners along they way as well.
Jaimie says
You know, it seems like no matter who you are or how nice you are, there will always be haters out there. LAME. I hope you're not letting it get you down; some people obviously have nothing better to do. I love your blog and you inspire me daily!! (and I am just a renter) 😉
Jen~ Lipstick and Laundry says
I am surprised you have had these rude and nasty comments… Don't people still live by the "if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all" rule?? I think your home and neighborhood is beautiful, the kind of HOME you see in the movies… Good for you to stand up and call these people out… hahahaha
Carmen says
I am rolling my eyes over here. People who leave comments like that are just jealous. Plain and simple. If everyone abandons the cities and just moves out to the suburbs, what will our cities be like? Don't city homes deserve love too? From one city girl to another, I love what you've done with your home. I love that you've stayed in the city and helped to remake your neighborhood. Go you!
amisare waswerebeen says
Good for you. We are living in a military-contracted house for only about 4 months, and I have unpacked as much as I have room for, hung pictures and artwork and tried to make it comfortable. Someone told me that if it were them, they wouldn't go to all that trouble if they knew they would be leaving again soon. But, I say that you should make it a home. Small, large, duplex, apartment, basement, temporary, permanent…I know that I and my family appreciate walking in the door and feeling the immediate ease and comfort of being able to call it home.
Love your writing and efforts to make your home a haven. Keep it up.
nannykim says
Ha! I can't even spell anynomous and if I do the spell check it blanks out this comment form for some ole reason. Who cares about those ole comments any how? Love your house and I think you have made a cool choice!
Funky Junk Interiors says
I don't know Beth. Those that speak in those kinds of words will never hear what is being said anyway. They've already made up their minds.
I say the ignore button may be more powerful than one can expect to hope.
Just, pray for them. 🙂
Donna
p.s. I've always LOVED your home as you well know. And then there's the infamous B wall of course. 🙂 But know, YOU make that B wall wonderful, not the other way around. It's just a wall. But the heart inside it is what makes it sing. Always. xo
Rachelle says
Are you kidding? I love being a city girl! My requirements for our next house is within a mile from a Taco Bell.. 😉 You can't get quick convenience in the country.. Not that I dislike country either, that's where I grew up. 😀
You're house is awesome.. People are…..stu… Silly.
😉
Mrs.B says
Ha! I'm with Kathy~I probably wouldn't give them a scone either!!!…but …ya never know…Remember…you might heap coals of fire upon their heads!(Romans 12:20) 😉
So, maybe I would give them a scone!
Your home is beautiful…who cares what they say! ;P
Cindy (Applestone Cottage) says
I love your beautiful home Beth and all the neat things you have done to it! It's always an inspiration and so are you!
Ignore those mean spirited people and take off the anomynous comment thing, they won't leave those comments if they have to be public.
HAGD,
Cindy
Kathy :) says
Hi Beth,
Those nasty people give us annoms a BAD rap !!!!
Love your blog and you're much nicer than me I WOULD not give them a scone !!!!
Have a great Sunday….
xo Kathy 🙂
**Amy** says
The nerve! Thanks for coming over and commenting on my post where I address the same thing. I am so glad Jen told you so now I found another great blog to follow. Now I am off to have a look around at your BEAUTIFUL home. I am glad you spoke up about it. I had finally had enough too and felt like the haters needed to be put in their place and called out on their cowardly and inappropriate behavior!
kelly says
mean people! why do they read something they don't like?! your house is cool and you do cool things, keep it up and ignore the rude people!!
Beth@The Stories of A to Z says
Thanks for all your sweet words of encouragement friends. I certainly do not address every negative comment I receive with its own seperate post, but sometimes it is important to speak rather than remain silent. This was one of those times.
Amanda @ Serenity Now says
Ooo—now my hackles are up. 😉 I HATE nasty anon. comments. One once took the time to make sure I know I am fat. Great.
It's just plain rude and cowardly to leave remarks like that. I LOVE your home and think you've done a wonderful job with it. I wouldn't mind living in the city at all, but T is a country boy at heart. The suburbs is the best I can get. 😉
Brush it off and keep up the good work!
PS. Love your new banner!
Linden Townhouse says
I have been a lurker and love your beautiful home. We too live right smack dab in the middle of an urban area in a huge USA metro area. (We live in a townhouse we bought, having left the suburbs.) I am sorry that people have made these remarks on your blog. I have seen this a lot on the blogs–mean comments and defensive remarks by the blog writer. Then lots of comments by readers blasting away at the mean people. However, there are some blogs with a huge following that never mention this kind of exchange, and surely they must receive mean comments too. I do think they must just ignore them, delete them, and don't give them the satisfaction of a reply. This seems to be the best way to handle this and a good example to us all!
Diann says
It amazes me that people have so much time and energy to waste making negative comments on blogs! To have that kind of free time! Oh wait, if I had that kind of free time I would be using it in a positive manner!
Holly @ Roller Coaster Life says
You are a better woman than me! I would have found those commenters and hunted them down at home and smacked them in the face with the chocolate chip scone!
I guess people don't get that A LOT of people are city people, not suburb people! Everyone is different!!
I love your house! I think its gorgeous! Some suburb homes don't look that good!
And it's sad they had to comment anonymous, thats a coward!
Kim's Treasures says
Oh my, people are so rude!! They need to come to the city sometime to see the revitalization! We are in the Chicago area and love being downtown and seeing the transformation of once run down areas. It's very trendy to do so around here.
I hope people learn to mind their manners before speaking of something they obviously know nothing about!
Jen @ tatertotsandjello.com says
People are so ridiculous. Your home is spectacular and amazing. I had to take anonymous comments off because people are so mean.
Amy at The Idea Room posted about mean people today too – it seems like they are out commenting everywhere lately.
I agree with your other commenters – I think those mean people are just jealous of you and your beautiful home!
XOXO
Jen
Tricia says
You go girl! 😀 I don't get people like that!
Kristin says
I just found your blog, and I'm so glad I did because I love it! I htin kyou have a great sense of style and your home and it's twin are gorgeous!!! Who cares what lame-o anonymous bloggers think. What matters is what you think and it's great that you're willing to share your style and beauty with the world. Congrats to you for creating a home that you LOVE, no matter where it is. I'm sure those stalkers are just jealous 😉
Jessica says
First of all, I cannot believe that people have the nerve to actually say such rude things. I happen to love your home, it's "twin" and your sense of style. Second, ;you have truly made your house your HOME and you will never be able to put a price or appraisal on the memories that you are making this very second. Good for you to stand up for yourself and I say "mind your manners people, didn't your mother ever teach you that if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all" sheesh….
Have a lovely day in your lovely home in your lovely city with your amazing family!!!
Jessica
ALogCottageLife
Shel at Dreamy Nest says
Amen!
I spent almost 20 years not spending the $$ I could have on my houses because they weren't "THE" house. I realized finally, that I was robbing my family, especially my children, of a home. We've lived in houses, that were just houses. It is my mission now to make each house we live in a HOME.
It doesn't matter where you live, what neighborhood you live in, whether the house will appreciate or not. I applaud you for making your house into a wonderful, beautiful, amazing home. Bless you – and ignore those snippy comments. You're doing the right thing.
And, I'll be over soon for a chocolate chip scone. 🙂
Pam @ Frippery says
What the H#$l? I do not understand someone taking the time to comment negatively about a home reno or any other topic. Jealousy is the only reason. My hubs and I live on six acres in a home we built 17 years ago. Now I am longing for an urban space to redo. Some place within walking distance of city life or at least a grocery etc. You are living the trend of the future anyway. Reno instead of building, close in to eliminate all the driving, community vs. anonymity. I say you are an inspiration. Plus who cares what someone else chooses as their lifestyle? We all have our own tastes and needs in life, just because one is different from your own doesn't make it wrong. Sheesh I am so disappointed in people's behavior sometimes. Plus, several of the comments are about money and appreciation on home value. Get with it people this is a home not an investment. The days of making a killing in real estate are OVER for the present. Get on with your life and stop tearing others down!
My son is a college student going to school full time and working full time. He lives in an urban area to be close to school and work. Walking and biking most places. I love his life style and we are thinking of heading for that same type of life in the next few years. You go girl. Be proud of the beautiful home you have created. OK rant over. Have a great week, Pam
foxfunds says
Wow – cyber bullies in adult clothing… If you can't attach a name to it – delete it, it isn't worthy of such a lovely place to visit.
As for your home. Home is where the heart is. Home is where the love is. Home is where family is. You have claimed your home and made it yours.
Are any of us truly living in our "dream home"? Probably not. Are some of us living in a home that still needs lots of TLC? I know I am, and we are working on it. Are some of us living in a home that is home until the kids go away to college? Sure, that is part of planning for the future.
Whether it is a studio apartment, a mansion on the hill – or everything in between…even if it's just where you are for now…always make it a HOME.
Now get back to those scones and planning those great projects. Love love love to visit – keep up the good work.
Pinky says
It is outrageous, the comments people think they are entitled to make! My daughter lives in a city, has fixed up her home BEAUTIFULLY and is rightfully very proud of it. She did it all ON HER OWN, so she has reason to be proud. All the while being suingle, working full time and going to school! I am so proud of her. Now she in engaged and we are thrilled. The trolls in blogland need to get a life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We all make our own choices of where we live and why. It is noone's business at all!!!!!!!!! Hope you have a GREAT day now…..eat the scone:):):) XO, Pinky
Sarah @ Thrifty Decor Chick says
What in the world?! How does that even cross someone's mind? I don't get it at all. It's your HOME. Who cares where it is or how it's situated? This honestly boggles my mind. Your HOME is beautiful. 🙂
Mrs. Petrie says
I'm sorry you've had to hear those types of comments. You've opened your home and life to us very graciously! Clearly these commenters don't watch HGTV b/c if they did they'd know how awesome your type of home is.
Tammy@InStitches says
You are a beautiful lady who has made a beautiful home for your family. When I hear comments like that it makes me think of that bumper sticker that says, "Mean People Suck" !
~Country Lady~ says
People who leave such comments need our pity and prayers. They must have some deep rooted issues that causes them to be such bitter negative people. Hopefully the people who left these comments will return to your blog and read this topic and responses. Hopefully, their minds will be opened to seeing the truth and getting the help toward positive change that they need. If one has nothing positive to say when visiting a blog, then say nothing at all. I applaud you Beth for speaking your mind and calling out the cowardly people who post such negativity. They are sad individuals, and it must be tough to walk a day in their lonely shoes.
Madigan at madiganmade says
These people need to get a life! Your home ROCKS with character.
Thank you for this post.
Home is wherever you and yours are! It is important to so many of us to make home (whatever or wherever it is) feel special and pretty. Isn't this why we all are reading decor blogs!?
If I lived in a tent, I'd still want to make it pretty!
Thanks again.
Nichole says
its sad that some people are so ignorant…ignore them and keep doing what you are doing…making your home from abandonded & ignored to beautiful & amazing..and go enjoy that scone 😉
Mel says
Some folks are city folks, some are country, some are suburbs. Some are just rude, no matter where they are from.
Your house is gorgeous and more importantly it's a HOME.
I have been a follower for a while and although I don't comment (much), I always enjoy your posts.
Hopeful Housewife says
BRAVO!!!!!!! Thank you! Thank you! for not taking the time and energy to explain your choice (not that I would have minded reading it)to people who would not appreciate it anyway. As if I didn't already have atleat 100 reasons to read your blog, you just gave me one more! (BTW, you know you can set your blog so that it will not accept anon comments. Thank you again!
Melissa Miller says
Ah Beth I'm so sorry. You are right that was uncalled for. I don't accept annonymous comments. I have never received even one mean comment or spam as a result.
Your home is a loved and charming place. Ignore those meanies!
Have a great Sunday!
~Melissa 🙂
Kathy @ Creative Home Expressions says
Sorry you have to put up with that Beth! I don't understand why others think we all need to live in the same type of area, same type of house. That smacks of some crazy futuristic movie that takes Stepford Wives to the extreme!
When I would drive into Queens to see my son when he was attending & living at St. John's University, I always drooled over the tudor style homes they have there. Homes that have been there for years and, at one time, probably were the burbs. I consider Queens part of "the city". Then last year when driving into Manhattan for a Christmas party, I said to my hubby, "wouldn't it be cool to live in one of these lofts or townhouses and just walk wherever we wanted to go?". He agreed.
Where and how you live is certainly dependent on your lifestyle, your needs and wants, what you are and do. Not everyone is cut out for the suburbs and, seriously, the suburbs are not all they are cracked up to be either.
Pam says
Yes girl! You tell them and so nicely done. I for one live in a zero lot line home (a duplex) and yes I own my side…..it is MY REAL HOME and had I been hit with remarks like you were, I would not have been as nice. It's a choice of where we chose to live and make our home….not theirs and like you said, their manners are so lacking.
Natasha Burns says
I found your blog yesterday when I was blog hopping… gosh I can't remember where, but I do remember they linked to you and featured you… maybe it was on V & Co, now that I think of it.
Anyway, in saying that, instantly, I added your blog to my google reader because it was one I wanted to see more of and be updated on! That was all from seeing your fabulous home and the picture of the at that stage unrestored sister.
There's so much to say about what these COWARDLY people are saying. Anon shmanon, if you say something OWN IT. argh!
But I was always taught, if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all. What on earth makes people think they can say such insulting and rude things to you? argh! i am completely at a loss here…
For a start, they are wrong. dead wrong! I hate to think of what world they live in where they think the only homes worth spending time, love, effort and money on are ones with everything brand spanking new and obnoxiously large, and 4 car garages… wasting energy so they can have 7 bathrooms for 2 people…!!
For what it's worth, not that it matters, I think your home is completely fabulous and wonderfully inspiring. and in other parts of the world, away from their little sheltered shells, living in the city is the place where homes DO appreciate. duh. i laughed when i saw that comment. While I am in suburbia in Australia myself, as homes get closer to the central part of the city, they get more and more expensive. we live where we do because it's only 15 mins from the city, and was affordable when we bought. closer in we had no chance.
anyway – i've let them bother me too much and my point was supposed to be to tell you I think they are rude and you shouldn't spend time letting them get to you at all. obviously they don't have your fantastic eye, or your abilities and talents.
they can go suck sour eggs and be jealous of your life. i applaud you!
Kristy @ Next to Heaven says
You tell 'em! I know how these comments can get under your skin. I dwelled on one a few months back… hateful people!! But your comments had to come from hateful AND stupid people- really? I say thank you Beth, for making something old beautiful again!
Wendy says
First I must tell you I love love love your house and so does Tony! Since his family is from Philly we are always drawn to city homes and the character that they offer. There are so many things that living in the city offers that the country doesn't have!
I feel sorry for the people out there that need to add their negative comments to somehow make themselves feel better. It's too bad that it is always at the expense of someone's else feelings. Maybe their mom didn't teach them manners!
Have a great Sunday!
Wendy
Carmen says
I like the way you deal with things head on. It's honest, it's a good reminder, and you're right–manners are a must when talking to people at anytime! That chocolate scone sounds good! Enjoy!!
maura says
Beth I love your home and weather you are a city mouse or a country mouse makes no difference at all! Don't let those people ruin your day and I hope you enjoy your scones this morning!
Leslie says
I liken those anonymous people to those that sit around creating viruses for computers. They somehow smugly think they are superior to us all when in reality, they are just sad little people wallowing in misery! Just a hiccup in your day I hope! Keep up the good work. I started reading blogs in January and they have really inspired me. Yours is a favorite!
The Hopkins Home says
I think your house is awesome. I love the character and history of city houses and you've done a fantastic job of restoring yours. I find restored homes the most interesting to read about/see before and afters of so just ignore those comments and keep up the good work for those of us who love to gain inspiration from you : )
Paula says
I'm fairly new to your blog and had no idea you lived in such a COOL home. I truly enjoyed looking at the two links you posted featuring your home and the one next door. Your house has way more character than a McMansion sitting in what should still be a hayfield.
Christina says
OH my word! Some people can be so rude! Your house is BEAUTIFUL and they must be jealous. Keep up the great work…and enjoy that scone!! 🙂
Heather@PixieDust says
I can't believe people actually said that! are they out of their minds? I think your home is so interesting, especially compared to the wanna-be mcmansion subdividions circa 2000 (ahem, ahem).
and what about Ms. Brooklyn Limestone? Your homes are very similar. I wonder if these same people have problems with the town homes in brooklyn, georgetown, boston, philly etc. too.
Pippablue says
I have just found your blog and I love it. I live in the country in Ireland now, but I do miss city living and especially living in Jamaica Plain in Boston. People can just be plain ignorant. Your house is beautiful and you have clearly made it a home that many wouls aspire to. Thanks for such great inspiration!
Randi says
I'm shocked at the comments people feel the need to make … they can only stem from insecurity and jealousy. I really appreciate all that you share and hope you'll continue … I'm new to your blog but I find it inspiring and fun to read.